Stop keeping score. Start seeing each other.
EquiPair is an impartial companion for two people. It reads both sides of what happens between you and turns it into one honest gauge, plain feedback and small things you can actually do.
Free to start. No card needed. Install it on your phone — iPhone or Android.
How it works
Three small habits. About a minute a day.
1. Tap how it felt
Log a moment or answer the 10-second daily check-in. Typed or spoken, never a diary.
2. Talk for three minutes
Four short turns, no interrupting. You end with one shared card and one small agreement.
3. See the pattern
The gauge and a weekly recap show where you're heading — and one thing to try next.
Four things, done properly
One gauge you both trust
A single reading of who is carrying more right now, with a heart at each end showing how much emotional reserve each of you has left.
Logging while you're still angry
One tap on what just happened, one slide for how hot it is. Or hold the mic and talk for sixty seconds. No journalling required.
The 3-minute coffee
Four turns of forty-five seconds each, no interrupting. At the end you get a card: what it was really about, what each of you needs, and one agreement for the week.
Insight cards
Weekly and monthly reads, a private blind-spot check just for you, and three small actions each. Downloadable to keep.
It works because it's easy when it's hard
Nobody writes a diary entry mid-argument. So EquiPair takes a tap, a slider or your voice — and turns that into something the mediator can read. Both sides, never a verdict.
Plans
Start free. Every couple gets a 14-day Plus trial — no card needed. One Plus plan covers both partners.
Free
€0 forever
- Typed event logging
- The balance gauge
- 3 insight cards a week
- 1 three-minute coffee a week
- Safety page and notices, always
EquiPair Plus
€9.99 / month
14-day free trial, no card needed · or €79/yr (about €6.58/mo, save 34%)
- Everything in Free
- Voice logging
- Unlimited coffees and insight cards
- Weekly agreements
- History, story and trends
- Monthly and quarterly reports
- One plan covers both partners
EquiPair Professional
€29 / month
- Therapist workspace and case views
- Paired reports and session prompts
- Dictated SOAP / DAP / BIRP notes with safety checks
- Up to 15 active couples
- Linked couples get Plus free while connected